Monday, March 2, 2015

HURT-Help Understanding Relationships Together

The mission of of HELP is to provide online mentoring for anyone who is in need of HELP.  We acknowledge there are several people in relationships that are not always healthy for them, and it is often difficult making the decision to leave especially if the majority of the relationship has been hidden from friends and family.  It is not uncommon for individuals to hide abuse from friends and family, often times it is done to protect the abuser, and other times to avoid the shame or criticism we may experience from disclosing the abuse.  It is important to talk to someone and seek the help one needs.  We offer a confidential online format where individuals can talk to someone without the fear of criticism.  Sometimes we just need someone to talk to.

If you are feeling alone, please contact us share your feelings, know you are not alone There are millions of individuals who have experienced some type of domestic abuse in a relationship, whether its a husband, wife, domestic partner, parent or friend your situation is not unique, and you are not to blame. Seek the help you need before it is too late.

Many of us have had the experience of a bad relationship and understand the pain and dark feelings that often surround one during that time. Whether you have recently separated from a relationship and are in the healing process or still engaging that relationship there is hope.
Hope that you can and will find happiness, do not give up, please seek HELP. The first step in finding happiness or making a change is finding the help and assistance you may need. Everyone has experienced a time in their life when they felt alone, lost or even hopeless.  Unfortunately this is the time people are most likely not to seek help, whether it is the feeling of shame, or embarrassment do not let that stop you, it time to make a change and get back the happiness you once felt. If you are in a relationship where you feel threatened or frightened then its time to get out and seek help. Nothing is more important than your safety. Often times people will want to plan their escape, packing taking items, if safety is a concern you take your identification any money on hand and leave.  If necessary leave everything behind including pets. This is about your safety, and the safety of your children, if that situation applies.  Get help now do not wait.

Please remember this site is confidential and we will not report any situation at all, nor will we seek to identify anyone who chooses to remain anonymous. We encourage individuals to seek help and our word of confidential is important, nothing will be disclosed without your permission, no one on this site is a mandated reporter nor are we specialist in the areas of relationships.  This site is for entertainment purposes for individuals seeking mentoring and/or conversation only,  This is not stated to deter you from contacting us, but to disclose we are here to talk, to listen, to provide you with someone to talk to.